About me

Your pal to talk all things adoption

I started The Helpful HAP during one of the most exciting and emotional seasons of my life; right after we matched for our first adoption. What began as a small way to share our story and encourage others quickly grew into a real passion. Less than a year later, we matched again for our second son, and during that whirlwind year, I leaned in even more. I was learning, sharing, and building a community for other hopeful adoptive parents.


Through it all, I saw how powerful social media could be for matching and how valuable it was to have a space filled with tips, encouragement, and real-life support. I created The Helpful HAP to offer the kind of help I wish I had when we were waiting; bite-sized advice, practical resources, and a reminder that you’re not walking this path alone.


Wherever you are in your adoption journey, I'm here to cheer you on and help you move forward with hope and confidence.

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Contact me

I love helping people navigate private adoption. Have a question about the process? Feel free to reach out to me and I’ll share my perspective.